You Are Not Alone

  

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Before I became psychic, there were times, even when I was surrounded by loved ones, students, and later by co-workers, when I would be lonely. I felt like nobody understood me. Fortunately, it was early on that I discovered writing. What I wrote was never published. These were my own journals, and I wrote about things that concerned me or interested me.

I suppose I was practicing for a future life as a writer. What I wrote was likely terrible. I was self-centered in those days, but at the lonely old age of 70, I can’t imagine why anyone at those younger ages wouldn’t be. I mean, babies need constant care and, of course, their world revolves around them. It isn’t until a person is older that the idea of life going on outside of their bubble begins to be something of significance.

However, as a young adult, even into my twenties and thirties, I thrashed around with things like, “It’s not fair” and stuff like that.

I also used to feel like I was “faking it”. I tried ever so hard to appear to be grown-up. Thankfully, I don’t have to try anymore. I just am. But I had to accept myself first before I could be comfortable in my own skin.

No, I’m not perfect, but then, neither is anybody else. You work with what you’ve got and make peace with yourself. It sounds simplistic. It is not.

But the bit about being lonely. It persisted. Turns out I am an introvert. I am socially awkward and still am. I think I’ve finally come to terms with that. Hey, a writer doesn’t write with other people. A writer writes by herself.

I spent years searching for answers. Thankfully, my husband has been supportive through all those years. He knew I was an odd duck, but he loved me anyway.

As things happened, I became aware that Spirit was always with us. I’d spent years yammering away at God and was frustrated that I never got an answer to my questions. Turns out Spirit is the same way. I thought that maybe psychics had the answer. Family lore said that my grandmother was psychic. There were lots of stories about her. So, as a teenager, I began reading about psychics and about people’s spiritual experiences.

It took me even after a lifetime of reading of other people’s experiences to come to the idea that maybe I could learn to be a psychic. People would talk about how people were born with the gift. I have come to the conclusion after my own experiences that everybody is born psychic. If we are not encouraged to be psychic, we lost it. So, more than 99% of the population is like that. But, you can learn this stuff again. It is a birth right, not a gift or talent.

Once I learned that, I doubled down to chase it for myself. However, it’s not something that you can just turn on. You have to be ready for it. You have to learn how to listen. I thought that would be the easy part. Hey, you’ve got ears. You can listen. Right? Nope. Ask anybody in customer service. You have to learn how to listen.

Then, there was the feeling. Psychics are sensitive, right? I was numb. I had to learn how to feel.

I could not meditate. I could not pray. I could not feel. I could not hear. I could not imagine. The list was very, very long. If this was something you were born with why was I so dumb?

It took me at least a good five years after a lifetime of exploration into the world of being psychic before I began to see and sense things happening.

Hah. I just thought of something. The time I spent seeking on my spiritual path is the time I would have spent at college. It’s not work recognized by any university or college, and yet, that is exactly what I have. It’s amazing what things can happen when you are writing about something. I’ve been officially psychic since 1993. That was 32 years ago. And I’m just realizing that now? I guess you could say I’m slow. This is actually an emotional moment for me.

In any case, whatever it is that you love, follow it.

But, the lonely part? The thing is your Spirit Guides and Folk in Spirit that you talk to as a psychic channel are always there for you. There is no more being lonely. There is no putting up a brave front. Spirit sees past all of that. You’re sad? Spirit will talk with you about it. They draw you out just as a psychotherapist does. The first part of any problem that you are facing is to see it. You might think your chest hurts for these three reasons. Perhaps, it might, as it did with a friend of mine, be that you were speared as a Roman soldier thousands of years ago. Once you fasten upon that truth your hurting chest isn’t so bad. He did a past life regression to find that truth. Nobody told him. He saw it himself.

Spirit is saying something.

Hello there.

Hi. Seth?

Yes. If I might?

Please. I’ll be quiet.

What our channel, Pauline means, is she will now leave the driver’s seat in this car and sit in the passenger’s seat for a bit. I will come forward to speak. I am Seth, her Spirit Guide. Mostly, we speak silently. But as there are many different kinds of channels, Pauline is akin to a trance channel. She is able, after many years of practice, to get out of her way and allow us some time at the microphone, so to speak.

Not everyone is moved to go to the extent that she has with her life. Many people are content with families, careers, and children. Perhaps an occasional trip here or there. It is enough. It was never enough for Pauline. She sought understanding, though she did not understand at the time what understanding would entail.

Anyone can tell you things, but with the current means of communications that is available today it is difficult to tell what is truth and what are lies. Perhaps the people spewing lies even imagine themselves to be purveyors of truth. It is complicated. Rely on your own sense of justice. The world can be a gentle, thriving place of love if that is what you wish. You can make it so even while there is no peace to be had for others around you.

Create those islands of peace, of enjoyment, of clairsentience on your own. If you can imagine your life could be so, it will be so.

Surround yourself with people who would support your seeking of knowledge. If they are not your immediate family, turn to writers who have explored the same things.

God is not one way or the other. God is like colors. God can be blue. God can be white. God can be the most delicious shade of rose, of pink.

The best advice I can give you today? Love yourself first, and then others can love you. Have fun first, and then fun will follow. Seek the answers you need, and the universe becomes an open vista for you. Our blessings this fine day, just a few days before Christmas, 2025.

Oh, I’m back. That was nice. I think I’m done here. Like I said, you’ll never be lonely again.

Hey, thanks for reading. For your convenience or curiosity, I’ve listed some other places where I’m active on the internet.

Love,

🌺 Pauline Evanosky

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